Separating from my partner but we’re not married: are we in a de facto relationship?

Franca Parolin, Senior Associate • Jul 21, 2020

After separation sometimes it can be difficult to know if you were in a de facto relationship with your former partner and to know what your entitlements are after separation, when you’re not married.


What is a de facto relationship?

The Family Law Act defines a de facto relationship as a couple who are:


  • Not legally married;
  • Not related by family; and
  • Living together in a relationship as a couple. [1]


A de facto relationship under the Family Law Act can be between 2 people of the different genders, or 2 people of the same gender.


A de facto relationship can also exist even if one person is still legally married.


When considering whether two people are in a de facto relationship the court may consider things like:


  • The length of the relationship
  • The circumstances of their common residence (e.g. how long they have lived together)
  • Whether a sexual relationship exists
  • Financial dependence on each other
  • How the people own their property (e.g. together or separately)
  • Care and support of children
  • Reputation and whether the relationship is publically known.


If you have separated from your partner and are unsure as to whether your relationship falls under the definition of a ‘de facto relationship’ we recommend you seek legal advice to ensure you are aware of your entitlements after separation.


[1] Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) s 4AA.


This article was co-authored by Law Cadet Taylah Jensen.


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