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Child Custody - Child Support

CHILD SUPPORT & CUSTODY LAWYERS SHELLHARBOUR

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Our family lawyers in Shellharbour work across all areas of family law, including divorce, parenting arrangements, financial settlements, and spousal maintenance.

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We aim to make the legal process as straightforward as possible. Our team works closely with you to reduce complexity and offer practical direction, so you’re never left uncertain about your next step.

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We understand how difficult family breakdowns can be. Our approach is thoughtful and focused, helping you make decisions that protect your wellbeing and long-term interests.

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Are you looking for reliable, practical legal advice regarding a child custody or child support issue? Our experienced family law team in Shellharbour helps you work through these matters with solutions that protect your interests and keep your child’s wellbeing front and centre.

Family Law & Children


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How Can Our Child Custody and Child Support Lawyers Help?

If you're dealing with disputes around child custody arrangements or need advice on support obligations, the child custody and support lawyers at Kells in Shellharbour are ready to assist.

We know how emotionally charged these matters can be. That’s why we approach every case carefully and provide clear direction through what can often feel like a difficult and uncertain time.


Our team takes the time to understand your situation and offer practical advice shaped around your family’s needs. We are known for being approachable, cost-conscious, and focused on achieving meaningful outcomes that support long-term stability.


Kells is here to help you move forward confidently, whether you're trying to formalise care arrangements or resolve a support issue.

Child Custody

  • What happens to my children if I have separated?

    Separation often leads to key decisions around where children will live and how they will maintain relationships with each parent, as well as with other close family members such as grandparents.

  • Who gets custody of children?

    The Family Law Act no longer uses the terms “custody” or “access.” Instead, courts issue parenting orders. These orders outline living arrangements, time spent with each parent, and how other meaningful relationships will be maintained.

  • What is parental responsibility?

    Parental responsibility refers to the obligation of parents to make important decisions concerning their child’s health, schooling, lifestyle, and general upbringing. The law starts with the presumption that both parents share this duty, unless there are specific concerns that justify a different approach.

  • What does shared parental responsibility mean?

    Shared responsibility means both parents must consult each other and jointly decide on long-term matters like education, religion, major medical treatment, and travel. Day-to-day decisions, however, remain with the parent who has care of the child at the time.

  • What does day-to-day responsibility mean?

    This refers to decisions around a child’s daily needs, such as meals, clothing, and activities. When a child is in one parent’s care, that parent manages those short-term choices.

  • What does shared care mean?

    The law encourages children to have regular and meaningful contact with both parents. Shared care might involve equal time or a schedule that gives each parent substantial involvement. Practical considerations such as work, travel time, and the child’s needs help shape these arrangements.

  • What happens if my ex-partner and I cannot agree?

    If you’re unable to reach a resolution, Kells can assist through negotiation, mediation, or by representing you in court to help resolve disputes around your children’s care.

  • What if we are able to agree?

    If both parents can come to an agreement about arrangements for the children, those terms can be documented and submitted to the court. Once approved, they become binding court orders. Formalising your agreement this way helps reduce the risk of future disputes and provides greater certainty for everyone involved.

  • What is a parenting plan?

    A parenting plan is a written agreement covering arrangements for children, signed by both parents. While it reflects mutual understanding, it is not legally enforceable unless turned into formal court orders.

  • What about the children’s wishes?

    Children’s preferences are taken into account, though they don’t decide the outcome on their own. The court considers many factors, including a child’s maturity and emotional development, when weighing their views. Older children’s opinions may carry more influence, but younger children are also heard.


    When deciding what supports a child’s best interests, the court examines several elements, including emotional wellbeing, safety, and the ability of each parent to meet the child’s needs. The overall impact on the child’s stability and development is central to every decision.

  • Who is the primary carer?

    The primary carer is generally the parent who has taken on most of the day-to-day responsibilities during the relationship. This may include tasks like preparing meals, assisting with hygiene, supervising daily routines, and attending to school or medical needs. The court also considers whether these duties have been shared equally or are expected to be shared going forward.

  • What if there has been abuse and family violence?

    The Family Law Act places strong emphasis on protecting children from harm. This includes exposure to emotional, physical, or sexual abuse. Parents are legally obligated to take steps that support their child’s wellbeing and protect them from unsafe situations.

  • What is compulsory family dispute resolution?

    Before a parenting matter can be brought to court, parents are generally required to attend family dispute resolution (FDR). This process involves a qualified mediator helping both parties attempt to reach an agreement. Whether or not the mediation is successful, the mediator will issue a Section 60I certificate to confirm participation or refusal.

  • Are there exceptions to attending Mediation?

    There are circumstances where mediation may not be required. This includes situations involving serious risk, such as family violence, abuse, or urgent matters like unauthorised relocation of a child. Exemptions may also apply where participation is not possible due to substance dependence or mental health concerns.

  • What if I want to change the existing orders?

    Parenting orders can be updated by mutual agreement, or by applying to the court for variation if circumstances have changed. Where agreement isn’t reached, the matter may need to return to mediation or court for a new decision.

Child Support

  • What is child support?

    Child support refers to financial contributions made to help cover a child’s everyday needs after parents separate. These payments can be issued as ongoing instalments or a lump sum and are designed to support the child’s health, education, and living costs.

  • When is child support payable?

    Payments generally begin once parents separate and the child lives in Australia. Support usually continues until the child turns 18 or completes their final year of secondary education, whichever comes later.

  • Who is required to pay child support?

    Responsibility for child support can fall on either parent, depending on income levels and care arrangements. This applies to biological, adoptive, and IVF parents, regardless of whether the parents were married or in a de facto relationship.

  • How is child support calculated?

    The amount payable is worked out using a formula set by the Child Support Agency. It takes into account each parent’s income after certain deductions, any other children they support, and how much time the child spends with each parent. An online calculator is available through the Department of Human Services to help estimate potential contributions.

  • What if we come to our own agreement about child support?

    Yes, parents can reach a private agreement without going through the Child Support Agency. These arrangements can offer more flexibility, as long as both parties agree to the terms and they are properly documented.

  • What if the other parent is dishonest about their income?

    If you believe the other parent is misrepresenting their financial situation or the child’s needs are not being properly supported, you can request a reassessment. The Department of Human Services will review the matter and investigate if necessary.

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